In this world of long distance and Internet dating, I have some advice for you girls.  So many of these guys are not who they say they are.  So many of them tell you the lies that they think you want to hear.  If you catch them in one lie, then you know that it isn’t the only one they’ve told you.  If they keep you a secret from their family and friends, than they are hiding something from you.  Here are some questions to ask yourself:

Does he move heaven and Earth to see you no matter the distance and no matter the cost?  If not, then he’s not the right guy.

Does he tell all his family and friends that you are the best thing that has ever happened to him?  If not, then he’s not the right guy.

Does he make you feel loved, treasured, and safe?  If not, then he’s not the right guy.

Does he work hard to be a better person, a better provider, and a better partner because he thinks you deserve the best man he can be?  If not, then he’s not the right guy.

Does he proudly tell the world that he belongs to you?  If not, then he’s not the right guy.

Does he always make time to comment on your posts?  If not, if he keeps it to the “like” button, then he’s not the right guy.

If you said “no” to any of the above, then he’s not the right guy.

http://www.theresadodaro.com  Theresa Dodaro is the Author of The Tin Box Trilogy